Self-Talk

[Zoom Meeting] OCPD & Self-Reflection ๐Ÿค”

If self-reflection were ever a competitive Olympic sport, I’d like to think that I’d probably take gold! ๐Ÿ˜ However, it wasn’t until I started prepping for this topic that I fully realized how it can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, I’ve greatly benefited from self-reflection in the context of regular journaling and talk […]

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[Zoom Meeting] OCPD & Self-Acceptance ๐Ÿ’

In my experience, the whole concept of reconciling my personality disorder diagnosis with the goal of self-acceptance truly felt like one of life’s greatest paradoxes. How do we accept and love ourselves fully when it feels like there is still something inherently, significantly wrong with us? Won’t accepting myself mean that I no longer believe

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[Zoom Meeting] OCPD & Perfectionism ๐Ÿ“

In “Atlas of the Heart”, the section on Shame flows directly into Perfectionism and so I thought it pertinent to follow that thread through to completion. If you’re just now joining us, be sure to check out the Shame section for full context. Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human

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[Zoom Meeting] OCPD & Shame ๐Ÿ˜”

Once again, it seems appropriate to share an entire (slightly abridged) section from the book “Atlas of the Heart” on Shame. For context, the emotion of Shame falls under the heading “Places We Go When We Fall Short” and is grouped with Self-Compassion, Perfectionism, Guilt, Humiliation, and Embarrassment. There’s just too much ground to cover

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