August 2024 – You, Me, & OCPD

[Zoom Meeting] OCPD & Frugality 🤏

Leave a Comment / Zoom Meetings / By Cale L. / 3 minutes of reading

In my brief preparation for this topic, I first learned that I’ve been using “frugality” as a 1:1 synonym for “misery” or “stingy” when that’s not entirely accurate or helpful. I really enjoyed the following article’s articulation of the differences as well as covering the deeper impact/costs that stingy behavior can lead to. https://www.softmindindia.com/Blog/hidden-costs-of-being-stingy The […]

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[Zoom Meeting] OCPD & Amends (Making & Receiving) 🩹

This session’s discussion topic is all about the process of making and receiving meaningful, genuine amends in response to hurt experienced in relationships. Without a holistic model to reference, I still recall how painful, lacking, and unhealthy the “apologies” I received and issued during my childhood were. My authoritarian father (likely undiagnosed OCPD) would enforce